One of those stories you’d rather not learn about, but when you hear it you need to share. Told by the former “the other woman”.
She had a 7 years relationship with a married guy. Late in the relation, she found out what he concocted so he wouldn’t get caught by the wife.
She was blonde, the wife brunette. She had long hair, wife had medium length. So the husband suggested to his wife to allow her hair to grow longer and “how about highlights, dear?”
This way, he was safe in case the wife found a blond strand on his coat.
Next he started buying his wife perfumes with no special reason. Whatever the mistress was wearing at the time became an instant gift for the wife.
So he wouldn’t smell different coming home.
Here’s a complete list of items that might give away a man beside the cliché perfume, blonde strand and lipstick smears: gloss, foundation, powder, laundry detergent, fabric softener.
Leaving pictures in your camera, computer, or phone is a dead give away.
Parking your car in an area where there’s no office building near by.
Profiles on various dating sites with your real name and picture – bad move.
Also, don’t forget the world is so small. Everybody knows everybody eventually.
So when the young and perky girl starts chatting with her older colleagues about her “boyfriend”, chances are high that one of them is a friend of a friend of a friend of the respective “boyfriend” ’s… wife.
Unexpected conclusion: It’s much easier for women to cheat without being caught! Women don’t cheat less – they just get caught less. Not because they are more cautious, but because there’s less evidence.
The other woman leaves a trail. The other man doesn’t. It’s as simple as that.
