And this comes from a woman. Look, I had my share of love and loss. I went through some tough lessons and I HOPE I understood something.
But I really don’t get women. They carefully avoid the good guys, they pick the most noncommittal male around and try to make him get involved in a serious relationship.
They get hurt terribly, they keep fighting, they chase, they stalk, they bargain, they end up hating him terribly, complaining endlessly and wondering why didn’t it work?!
In the beginning at least, a relationship should be magic. You should be fueled solely by endorphins, seek each other’s company endlessly, post sappy messages on every social platform known to mankind to day.
After a while, it should settle into a steady boat, floating in peaceful routine, a comfortable partnership equally enjoyed by the two of them.
But when from start, everything is a fight, every concession feels like a compromise, every step feels like walking in snow up to hips against the blizzard… something is not quite right and it will not improve as time goes by and passion fades.
On the other hand, I, the old bitch, am looking for a light affair, a man who wants to feel good and definitely makes me feel wonderful, just laugh and marvelous sex and I find the only man in the world willing to settle down, exhausted by shipwrecks and storms.
I have no idea how I got sucked in a relationship, when I know I carefully chose a lover. I didn’t know how to set the boundaries. It’s completely my fault.
Can’t we sincerely post some requirements and really, really, truthfully admit firs to ourselves what are we willing to offer and what are we able to bear in a relationship?
I don’t know. Keep it simple. Identify the signs, understand them and let the fuck go!
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